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Length: 46 minutes
There are 2 covenants associated with Avraham Avinu-the bris of chessed, and the bris milah. Although we usually associate the bris milah as symbolizing the relationship between man and Hashem, chessed also shows this connection, through the person emulating Hashem. A Jew is identified by both of these covenants. Even when a person has strayed far from Judaism, he can still be connected to Avraham Avinu and the Jewish people through the bris hachessed and bris milah.
Length: 48 minutes
In the second aliyah of Parshas Vayeira, Hashem tells Avraham about the planned destruction of Sodom. Hashem consults with Avraham on this matter because Avraham is his partner in the world, working to bring Hashem’s presence down. As a partner in creation, Avraham has a say about what will be, and asks Hashem to act according to din and not destroy the righteous along with the wicked. Beyond that, he asks for the wicked to be spared along with the righteous, so that he can continue his job of bringing recognition of Hashem to this world, as a partner.
Length: 49 minutes
In the third aliyah of Parshas Vayeira, we learn about the destruction of Sodom. Although the malachim (angels) are treated with hostility from the start, the fate of Sodom is not sealed until after Lot tries to convince the people not to act in a despicable way. The people do not want to hear rebuke, and say that Lot has no right to speak to them in that way. This character trait is what blocks a person from teshuva (repentance) and self-improvement, as they will never be open to change. Lot originally saw this in Mitzrayim, and lived in Sodom because they had a similar attribute, one which he still carried with him even after he was saved.
Length: 48 minutes
There are many stories in the 4th aliyah of Parshas Vayeira, and they all have a common element. After Sodom is destroyed and Lot is saved, he has children with his daughters. After Sarah is taken by Avimelech and he repents, Avimelech is able to have children, and Sarah gives birth to Yitzchok. All of these children are born through different relationships. We learn about the different aspects of relationships in terms of genuine chessed, true giving and expansion of oneself, and chessed meaning shame, a lustful relationship that is self-serving. We want to access the chessed of Avraham-true giving and expansion of self-which is the antithesis of Sodom.
Length: 1 hour 14 minutes
The story of Hagar and Yishmael’s birth is a complex one, with different roles played by Hagar, Sarah, and Avraham. Originally, when Sarah gives Hagar over to Avraham, she gives her as a full wife out of respect for Avraham. However, Hagar oversteps her boundaries and does not recognize that she is still Sarah’s maidservant. The child that Hagar had with Avraham was supposed to be like the child of Sarah and Avraham-however, Hagar’s reaction made it not be the case. We discuss the intricacies of the story and the continuing transformation of Sarah-from the wife of Avraham, to the mother of Yitzchak and Klal Yisroel.
Length: 1 hour 3 minutes
Akeidas Yitzchok was the ultimate test of Avraham Avinu, after which Hashem proclaimed that now he has true yiras elokim (fear of G-d). Until this point, Avraham understood what he was doing in his service of Hashem, and continued coming close to him with ahavah (love). When Hashem asks him to sacrifice his son, it is the antithesis of everything he knows and understands about Hashem. By following Hashem’s orders, he demonstrates a complete subservience to Hashem’s requests, regardless of whether or not he understands. This adds the critical element of yirah (fear) to his relationship with Hashem, instead of an all-encompassing love.
Length: 56 minutes
Avraham excused himself from a visit with Hashem to greet guests. He recognized the importance of being like Hashem, being a tzelem elokim, an extension of Hashem in this world. He restored emuna in Hakadosh Baruch Hu by emulating Him, and helping people recognize that everything is from Hashem.
Length: 46 minutes
Avraham Avinu had tremendous ahava (love), and his entire relationship was that everyone should act out of ahava and inspiration. Because he did not want anyone to be coerced into Judaism, he lost the opportunity to bring people close to Hashem. After the Akeida, Avraham learned the lesson of the importance of boundaries, subordinates and yirah. One needs both ahava and yirah.
Length: 1 hour
Avraham Avinu established the tefilah of Shacharis, the prayer we say in the beginning of the day. This is the original tefilah, and we can learn many lessons about the nature of prayer from it. Avraham Avinu had a close relationship with Hashem. The covenant that our forefathers made with Hashem will never end, as we are both committed to each other. When we daven, our prayers make an impact because we are partners in Hashem’s creation.
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